Im too old for this shit

Im sitting at the shithole in the wall, dive ass bar that I've chosen as my drinking hole for the past 10 yrs , I stop there on the way home, when I need to chill the fuck out and wait for the traffic to calm down.

After 1 drink, I get the urge to pee, so on my way to the bathroom I pass this pool table with a bud of mine and his friends shooting pool.  He ( my buddy) made a shitty shot and I said you suck.  The next comment is one of his buds saying fuck you motherfucker.  Im a peacful guy and I turn around give him a not so nice look and go about doing my business.

20 minutes later (age or prostate, or beers ..who knows) I get the urge to urinate once again, so I walk in the bathroom, the same dude is in there, door unlocked, and doing his biz and asks me to come on in.   Ok ... I say its cool, Ill wait.  I walk back to the bar resume drinking. he walks out after he is done and walks to me and asks me to join him in the bathroom. So you know, i dont have a gay phobia and have a cpl of gay friends, male and female variety.

To his demand I simply replied "fuck off" and told my bartender of 10 yrs of the troubles to be.

He goes outside, smokes whatever, comes back, I point toward his dumb ass telling the bartender as the culpret which soon will be in trouble, he walks to me carrying on with another fuck you.

I get up, dont say shit to him, head butt his dumb ass to the ground (which ive never done in the past..ever) and go back to my seat.

I get asked to leave my drinking, solitude hole in the wall.

Part of me feels like shit as Im not a fighting man and dont wanna hurt noone

Part of me feel great cuz I will never put up with shit, better dead than a sorry ass bitch of a man.

Between you and I my forehead fucking hurts.  His buddies appologized and i saw him peel off the lot as I walked outside to have closure.

Once again im disappointed in myself.  What else could I do?  Thats the way he wants, thats the way he gets. and no..im not huffing and puffing...just want to be left alone and live a peacefull life, taking care of mom and kids..and myself.

Abid

PS- I was just informed by his friends that he was just fucking with me though i dont even know the motherfucking dude.

 Some folks just won't let you be nice to them.

I agree with his friends. He was fuckin with you. So you gave hime a piece of your mind. Literally. Maybe next time his friends will check him when he acts like an ass with someone he doesn't know. Sure doesn't make you an animal though. About 4 years ago coming out of the hardware store a couple illegals are sitting on my car. I tell him get the fuck off my car. He goes we own this parking lot cuz its where we get work. I was an animal. Kinda shocked me because I'm really laid back most of the time too.

I never have tried that headbut thing! My luck the bastard would be more hard headed than me Abid you were the one there, you knew what you had to do! Where did ya get him? The chin? the nose? forehead? Details!!!  lol did ya wish ya had that helmet on?

Thats weird? If you see him next time just kick his Ass!

mess with the bull..... get the horns.

taught that boy one of those "life lessons"

Awwww shit! Wish I could say those were the days but hell, I still do that kinda shit all the time. Just goes with the territory I guess. People always thinkin they gotta prove somethin to someone or themselves and for some strange  reason I seem a likely volunteer. But I am betting here that you just didn't quite take it far enough for the lesson to sink in perminantly. Now iffin ya whipped out yer Johnson and pissed on his head while he was down,  letting him and everyone else know about his "meet me in the head" comment, then you would have done some serious damage control!!! But that's just me ya know. I like to know I will never have a problem with a particular person again by adding a little humiliation with the lessons life teaches.

And as I digress here it reminds me of the time some years back a 20 something probate give me the ol head butt. The look on his face when I just stood there laughing with a trickle of blood comin down my forehead. I tell ya it was priceless. But ya always have to remember, there is always someone out there with a harder head and less brains than you!!!! Trust me "I KNOW!"

From one Leo to another

How Lordly this lion ..

How loving how fair..

A generous creature..

to the tip of his hair................till ya rattle our fuck'n cage! lol!

Abid, you don't fuck with people you don't KNOW...I mean, that's just how it is...You know me, and I joke around all the time, but I would never tell someone I didnt know to fuck off, unless I planned on gettin in a scuffle...

He deserved what he got, maybe next time, he'll think twice about tryin to be one of the boys before he IS one of the boys...Cuz them's fightin words in my opinion...

I usually diffuse the situation by offeing to buy'em a drink which still aint right but thats as passive as I can be as a man. I mean $4.50 for a drink a lot cheaper than hospital and lawer.

I hear you wayne...I'd look awfully silly knocking myself out cold headbutting someone.  However, this time he did get up, got in his car and left.  His buddies apologized for his dumb ass.

Lets hope Im good to go for another 10 years, or make it 20.

Be good Ya'll
Back to work.

You did what you had to do ....
with as little fuss as possible!!

There is NO shame in what you did.
It's a shame it had to be done.

Sometimes it's hard to be peaceful
when someone else is on the war path.
Like you say...hopefully it'll be 20 (or more) years
before you encounter another jerkawf.

Aaahh... the bar scene... testosterone flowing freely... 

You walk by and you tell him his shot sucked... now he coulda took that like a cool dude and laughed it off and said, "hell yea man, it sucked like my ole lady"... or he coulda took it the way most men would and it appears he did.

And no he didn't have to act like a dick about it, but he did.  His mistake.

I suppose that what really happened was that you both smelled the piss you sprayed on the pool table legs and clashed. 

But really, I would have loved to seen you head butt his ass LOL.  Two big bulls scratching around to see who owns the fucking bar!  I hope your headache goes away soon and I wish you had of taken pictures :)

Cheers!

Traccie, Im a lot more peaceful guy than you think, Im not in my 20's either, but then again you are new here and dont know me.

Welcome to the site.